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Negative People

  • Vicious circles and insecurity

  • Do other people get their dreams put down?

  • Negative husband not loving his step-children

  • Negativity From People Regarding Weight - How do you deal with people who make negative comments about your weight?

  • Dealing With My Grandmother - how do you deal with someone who is angry and bitter all the time?

  • Being Harassed While Walking

  • Ignore Negative People - Samantha provided her tips for dealing with negative people. I also provided my thoughts. What do you think? Add your comments too.

  • Dealing with negative people

  • Negative Spouse
    I would like you to be more specific when dealing with a spouse that has neg attitude. When is it time to decide if divorce ...

  • Negative People Tip - Develop Tolerance For Them

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    Confidence Help

  • Is it okay to dream this? - is it okay to want to get back together with your ex?

  • Confused When Verbally Abused - What can you do when your job is to answer calls from angry people who sometimes yell and shout at you?

  • Stress of life at college - I am really struggling at Uni, I thought I was going to have a great time, but little did I know that the friends I made in the first year were going to abandon me in the second year (this year)...

  • Logical Thinking?
    I lack self-confidence because I do dumb things sometimes. I don't reason or think logically and I have poor problem solving skills. How can I deal with or overcome this?

  • Be Positive Instead of Smoking - Hood provides some good advice on why being positive works better than smoking.

  • Different standards for me than others
    How do I stop having such impossibly hard standards for myself yet have such compassionate standards for other people.

  • When Love Is One Sided

  • Follow-thru
    I have trouble completing what I start...

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    Unhealthy Friendships

  • Obsessed - my cousin is obsessed with two friends at her school but they don't treat her well at all.

  • What is it when friends put conditions on you to hang out?

  • I must be a slow learner about friendships - what do you do about a friend that seems to be a good friend but bails every time you plan on doing things?

  • Adult friend intentionally not inviting me - if you have a friend that doesn't invite you yet invites others, should you say something to them?

  • Always finding fault in me - what do you do when your friend just takes and takes and also tells you who you can be friends with?

  • New daughter in law's undesirable friend - what to do when you're concerned about your daughter in law's friend.

  • Unhealthy friendships can be very messy - when personal friendships and work relationships come in conflict

  • Unhealthy friendships - friend always cancels

  • Letting go of a 40 year friendship

  • My Negative Friends - trying to move on from negative friends

  • Controlling Relationships Warning
    Janet wanted to share her story of how someone used NLP techniques to control her when she was vulnerable. It's an important message and I'm grateful that Janet was willing to share her story in order to save others from having to go through what she did. Thank you, Janet.

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    Relationships

  • Insecurities about his ex-girlfriend

  • Trust/ Confidence - Your partner is accused of cheating. He says he never and you can't prove it either way and to make it worse girls throw themselves at him...

  • Flirting Why do some people flirt and what can you do about it?

  • Question about love

  • Controlling Relationship? - Am I in a controlling, manipulative relationship?

  • Confidence Issues in Relationships
    Wondering wanted to know what do you do when you're having confidence issues in your relationships and you find yourself starting to snoop.

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