self-esteem  I moved out from home about 10 months ago to start college. Everything is going great.. my profs were awesome...my community leader were very welcoming ...

Who am I? Finding out that my father is not my biological father.  In 1992 after having my first child, my Mother decides to tell me that my Dad is not my biological father. I was 24 years old and completely devastated....

gossip  i am playing table tennnis and before every competition i am afraid that i will lose and people would laugh/talk bad things etc about that. I am afraid ...

Putting Myself Down!/why do I always blame myself????????  If I had to make a list of the things I could feel good about myself for that list would be very slim. If I were to make a list of the bad things about ...

Priorities in life  I will be presenting to a Ladies Bible Class this topic.
This is a most diverse group: retired college professor grandmothers to single mothers with only ...

I just don't feel like I ever fit in  I am so sick of feeling like the odd person out ALL the time. Ever since I was little I just never felt like I fit in and always felt like the odd man/...

i m soo angry person  hi.....
i have a 2 years and 7 months baby. Sometimes I am so angry with him and even with my husband. Sometime I feel so sorry for them and feel to hurt ...

MENTAL NUTTER  I am so angry. I've had medication, I've seen shrink after shrink from the nhs even paid privately, none of it works.

i get angry every day over nothing ...

why am i angry?  i am always angry!!! i have been angry since i was a little girl. i am always mad. i get mad over every thing! i have seen doctor over doctor, and weirdo ...

How do I become more successful in product design?  Last year I finished my degree in Product Design which I really enjoyed doing. My current job has a bid to do with design but not to a large extent. My ...

Relationship with grown sons  I was a good mother and yet my grown sons, (married with children)really don't have much to say to me. One regards his aunt with great affection and I ...

Hate My Job - Mid Life in my 30's  I hate my job. I feel angry and depressed all the time.

I bring home my anger. My poor family. I want to quit my job and find something new. But with ...

Letting Go of Unhealthy Friendships  I'm 26, newly married, and I try to avoid confrontation at all costs.

Over the years, I have had a negative and rocky friendship with a girl that started ...

angry all the time  I don't understand angry. My husband is always angry. He is angry at me for everything. My kids notice it.

He is sweet and bending backwards for his ...

My kid's attention  Hi,
I have a 18 month toddler who spends a lot time with his father because I am the one who is working. I realize that my son does not pay me enough ...

Re article on needing others' approval  I have read many of the articles on this website and they are all very inspiring.

However, a lot of the ideas are very centered on the self, like we ...

Vicious circles and insecurity  I seem to be in a vicious circle of becoming close to people with big personalities, only to feel, after time, swamped by those personalities and inclined ...

Outsider's Fear, Anger, Depression  There's a war going on... inside me.
I was at a personal development weekend in February in the US, and as was part of the program, I sat in tears opposite ...

confused when verbally abused  HI my name is Anna and this evening I was looking for a way of dealing with some of my "problems" when I came across your website which I find very positive ...

logical thinking?  I lack self-confidence because I do dumb things sometimes. I don't reason or think logically and I have poor problem solving skills. How can I deal with ...

negativity from people regarding weight  How do people deal with negative people who put others down regarding weight? The experience of say a female"friend" who unfairly puts you down or the ...

Anger/ frustration  (not going to bore you with every details, but here's a bit of what's bothering me)

My father and I have never really bonded. Ever since I was a child,...

Born a full century out of time  Having serious issues dealing with anything happening outside my front door. I can't cope with the way people are and the way things are. Everything sends ...

What do I want  After years of being in bad relationships and being very submisive, I met the right guy. He taught me to be confident, made me aware of my beauty (inner ...

group talking   when i need to talk before a group of a few people i always suddenly get scared and stressed or excited about what im gonna say (if it will be right/wrong ...

are those signs of jelaousy?  2 years ago my husbands friend got married. His wife and I very soon become close friends. I really like her,better say adore her, she is so smart,self ...

No solution  I'm 40 male.Working to look after my family for last 23yrs,12hrs a day.
I have an elder sister of 47yrs with a small facial defect which thru the years ...

Be proud of yourself  Hello
We have created this website where you can enter little comments about something that made you proud. If you find it interesting, please let us ...

cheating and insecure  Hi there,

I just started a relationship with a girl I've been seeing for a few months, she's lovely and things are going well, but I can feel my questioning ...

frustration  how do you breakthrough frustration...do you use it as leverage to make dramatic changes?


Visitor's Comments
Date: August 25, 2008
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smoking-be-positive-instead  to cope with life do positive things because smoking confuses ya brain cells.Our bodies r controlled by the brain coordination.Smoking marijuana holds ...

Different Standards and Rules for Myself and Others  I want to know why I have such impossibly hard standards for myself and why I have such compassionate standards for other people.

For example, I have ...