Confidence With Relationships Discussion Board

I Don't know what to do anymore 
After reading the article on Blamers it dawned on me that my husband is one or so it seems like he is. I been married for 10 years and I don't know what …

DNA DISASTER! 
I am a 54 year old Author with a great husband, children etc. My mom and I have always been super close. I decided to have my DNA done, to be afforded …

boys 
i'm 15 and i know should be concentrating in year 11 but i'm always overthinking. i always have these issues with the boys. it started with this boy last …

King of spin!!!!  
My partner is sending me insane of the fact that I'm always going on to her about things . But I no me and I no that I'm not insane, she's making me …

Continual broken relationships - family or intimate 
I read that it meant my attitude to myself. I agree. I have a disability and been told I was crazy all my life and discovered by medical that I wasn't. …

hello everyone 
If possible i need help of all of you to save my family, so pls pls help me, My relation with my wife is getting bad every day and i dont want to something …

I think am dealing with some anger been married for 6 years and I stay so frustrated with my husband. 
Angry with husband whenever he say something to me I respond back with an angry attitude I sometime want to give up on my marriage. We are both christian …

what is it to a best friend? 
I am always there when help is needed. I am there when I thought she was my Friend and she was sick. But when I went on short disability, I heard …

Boyfriend's crazy ex won't go away 
I have been with my boyfriend for the last year and a half. We met about 11 years ago. When we became romantically involved the relationship took off …

The show 
So... My boyfriend of 3.5 years has failed to show up at home multiple times. I have reason to believe that it's because I am frightening or too much to …

how do u get over things 
hi I been with my partner for 3 and half years but it hasn't been easy because he has decided one min its me he wants the nxt min he wants his exs but …

Can I Fix an Anxious-Avoidant Relationship with My Wife? 
I'm 56 and have been married to my wife for 23 years. Recently our relationship reached a sudden low with my wife saying that I was miserly, fat, and someone …

He says he feels pressured, Why? 
We have been dating for about 2 months. he had several things going on that he did not invite me to. I told him I was feeling excluded. Now he says …

How to overcome emotional block? 
I am looking for solution and guidance to overcome my emotional block. I got to see my fear and guilt makes me weak and blocking myself in to it. I am …

What should I do? 
Hi, My husband and i have being together for 1yr and a month now and i still feel as though he still can't stop acting weird infront of me when he sees …

is it Fb or me??????????????????? 
hi there..... need some advice, i think im going mad, ive been married for eleven years and with my husband for almost 23 yrs total. i met him when …

Trouble 
So I've been with my fiance for almost 2 yrs. We are getting married in 4 months, we have communication skills. Everytime he says something about what …

Hard to Move On 
I have had this relationship with a guy for almost 5 years, he is younger to me in age. He was the one who initiated and proposed his love to me. Our life …

x cant let go.. 
i,ve been with my guy for less then a year and in this year his x that i never new about till 3 months into our relationship,(no he wasnt with her they …

Verbal attacks, not allowed to respond 
It's almost out of the blue. I think things are fine then it's a very personal attack; I don't talk any sense' I'm jealous, i can't stick to one subject. …

In a relationship for almost 3 years and he fears committment more than me! 
I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years, we both have had messy divorces, but he is scared to make serious plans, althogh he has given me "the …

Comparing myself to his exes.... 
I have read so many articles and I haven't found any clear answers on what to do or how to resolve the issue. I feel as though something is wrong with …

Relationship with a negative person 
I've been dating my bf for a little over a yr and a half. We met online and preceded to have a long distance relationship for a couple of months before …

problems with his ex 
ok, i started dating my boyfreind three weeks ago, and i asked, "well who was your girlfriend before me.." because i'm curious about that stuff, and he …

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Problems with SiL 
I have a brother who is married for almost 6 years now and he has 2 daughters. We are in the same city currently. 4 years ago, i moved into this city …

coparenting and trying to remain positive 
i have a toddler who's being put in the middle of uneccessary conflict. have been co parenting for a while now. my ex moved in a bf shortly after our seperation. …

How to mend my relationship with my only sisterinlaw? 
We were 2 siblings me and my 5 yrs younger brother and our mom and dad ours was a happy family. Somehow once my brother got married things between me and …

Boyfriend is overly questioning of things I do 
I have been in a stable relationship for over a year and a half with a wonderful man. But there is one thing he does that really bothers me and I don't …

How to deal with looking so much younger then you are  
I am in my mid 30s and i look really young - my friends keep saying things like the only person who would like you is a pedophile yet i have a body of …

Relationships that go right but make you go hmmn. 
My fiance and I have been together for over a year now. I love him a lot and I went through a lot of bad guys to be with him today. You know what I mean? …

dealing with a failed marriage 
I am 41,(male) and still married to a woman who left me 2 years ago. I don't really blame her for leaving as I totally took her for granted and we were …

Jealousy and negative thinking 
Hi, I am a 28 year old firefighter from the UK, I am not bad looking and have got a lot going for me. But I have always struggled with low self-esteem …

my wife had emotional effair 
I have forgiven my wife but really don't trust her. It's been 3 years I still feel anger at my wife's mother and her friends, I feel that they helped …

angry 
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now, we have a 6 month old daughter, ever since she was born, my boyfriend has been unusually angry at …

Husband in touch with ex girlfriend long distance 
My husband of 16 years has stayed in touch with a "friend" from 20 plus years ago. We have two incredible sons and as a family have a great life. We …

Difficult relationship after sexual affair 
I am married to my husband since 9 years. I was thinking that our marriage is great but I was very wrong. I couldn't conceive for a long time and this …

Can't Get Over the Past 
I was married and had my son when I was sixteen and my daughter when I was 20. I am now 41 and been cheated on multiple times. My first husband messed …

Why does he always tell me i'm crap? 
I have been in this relationship on and off for nearly 5 years. The honeymoon period lapses and then the real him comes out. He is always so negative. …

Finding love while not looking 
I keep hearing that you only find love when you are truly not looking for it. I can see some of the reasons why this is said, such as you need to be …

How can you get on the dating scene and feel confident with other sexes? 
I have dated and am in my mid 30's but I have never been great at attracting men to fancy me. I am quite okay looking but have some physical issues occuring …

relationship with my sister in law 
Hi Catherine, This is my second article I am writing on your site which I really like. Where to start? I am married for 5 years now. My husband …

Relationship trust issues 
Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a year. Problem is she lives about 500 miles away. Most people say long distance things never work …

What am I doing wrong? 
I been married for 9 months. I think my husband hates me. He drives trucks and I often sleep alone thats fine, but when he gets home he act like I'm not …

experience left me low in self belief 
Ten years ago I had a very destructive relationship with a guy who was extremely controlling and who spent every day asking me what thoughts I'd had about …

What am I doing wrong? 
I just want to know what i've been doing wrong or if something is preventing me from being in a relationship. I haven't dated in three years or so. …

too much or not enough? 
Hi all, I am posting this message to see if I'm alone or not, basically I'm with a very nice girl at early stages time wise, but my problems lies with …

Insecurities about his ex-girlfriend 
I met my partner about a year ago but called things off as I had just come out of another relationship and needed time for myself. However, we remained …

trust/confidence 
Your partner is accused of cheating. He says he never and you can't prove it either way and to make it worse girls throw themselves at him and even though …

love 
how can u look matured in a relationship with your spouse or guy which he will respect u.and how he will love and cherish you even if he has a girlfriend …

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flirting 
Some people, sometime like an unknown person, when their partner is near him,and sofer for him. Why happens that? Visitor's Comments Date: …

Controlling Relationship? 
Am I in a controlling, manipulative, relationship? When we first met he was perfect. We didn't argue at all. He told me about all the horrible things …

confidence issues 
help...help... I am recently dealing with confidence issues in my relationship...doing the snooping thing. I was not like that before and we have had …