Guilty of my past

by krish
(banglore)

Hi all,
When I was 15 years old I was sexually abused by a gay many times. Though It was not my mistake, being a victim of a gay person,i feel guilty since 5 months. I am saying to myself that, I should feel guilty because I was sexually abused by a gay and I also not deserve to be happy,self confident and I should feel Low in confidence and everything. All this things I am saying to myself only because what happened to my past. Should I need to feel guilty of my past, low in everything such as confidence,happiness.....etc? help me in this regard....Thanks to one and all.

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Dec 19, 2012
guilty of my past
by: krish

Hi, here I am again, in my last post i have forgot to mention my current age, i am 27 years old now.

Feb 10, 2013
Guilty of past...
by: Anonymous

One question for you Kirsh; why do you feel like you should feel guilty now after all these years?

You were a victim and you were violated. You may have blocked out the incident for much of your life and was able to live your life normally. I don't believe you have to feel guilty now. But however you are feeling now might be a delayed response. Speak with a therapist who can help you sort through your feelings about the incident so that you can move on with your life.

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