is it Fb or me???????????????????
need some advice, i think im going mad, ive been married for eleven years and with my husband for almost 23 yrs total. i met him when i was 14 and he was 19- we have two lovely kids.
lately he;s been on fb a lot through his iphone etc so as i set it up for him i had a snoop one day and found some meesages and comments to old ex girlfirends etc. i felt hurt and betrayed as he was showing them attention he seems to have forgotten to give me... to be honest i felt so insecure.
anyway when i confronted him, i asked who he was connected to and he told me another girls name and admitted he;s been chattin to her at night for about a week (while i was studying for college exams)- anyway i felt crushed and this made me more and more insecure so i deactivated his account and changed the password. the shit hit the fan literally for about a week or so, arguments, i made threats to leave (etc), crying etc and then finally we had a breakthrough and spent the last two weeks getting to know each other all over again, doing things together and just being loved up. soooo i decided that i had to learn to trust him and stop being so paronoid and insecure. i reactivated his fb account again, but last nite when i logged on to my account i got a notification saying he is now friends with the one from the chat room !!!! i went f******* crazy and confronted him yet again , and he told me wen he went back onto his account she had sent a freind request - was she missing him when his account was deactivated/ is she trying to get with him????? but more to the point - what was he thinking accepting her as a friend again???? i feel so hurt, angry and used ... we're just arguing all the time and i told him i want a seperation? he told me there is nothing going on and that i am over reacting and paronoid as he said it is all in my head?? i can't get past these feelings of hurt and betrayal " whats wrong with me"???? please ... any decent advice would be appreciated!