In a relationship for almost 3 years and he fears committment more than me!

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I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years, we both have had messy divorces, but he is scared to make serious plans, althogh he has given me "the key to his heart" in the form of lovely necklaces. He is a bit anal, has had an alcoholic father and a very manipulative ex-wife, who he continues to pay her monthly while she refuses to work. It's frustrating because I work full-time and struggle to make ends meet.

He's a GREAT guy, but am I being too selfish and too hurt? I at times I feel like I am selling myself short? Is it worth the wait?

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