by Catherine Pratt
www.Life-With-Confidence.com
Looking for an easy way to save money as all your monthly bills have
just come in and now you’re feeling completely broke? Do you wish that
you could keep more than what constantly goes out? Before you can start
to save, you need to understand your attitude towards money as this is
what will determine whether you’ll be successful or not.
I Don’t Know Why I Don’t Have Any Money
Awareness
Do you just instantly run out and buy the first thing that pops into
your mind? Do you buy a latte every day on the way to work? You need to
be aware of what you’re buying and when you buy it. It’s the small
draining of your money every day that can be one of the biggest culprits
of why we don’t have any money
Stuck in a Rut Routine
Are you mindlessly doing the same thing over and over cause that’s what
you’ve always done? For example, do you end up eating out with your
friends a lot? Maybe suggest going for a walk or a hike on the weekend
instead. It would be free and you’d be getting exercise as well. This
is a really easy way to save money and you won't end up feeling deprived
afterwards. In fact, you'll probably enjoy it more because you're
doing something different and getting to talk more. Bet you also have
some pretty cool memories as well. More so than simply eating in the
same restaurant week after week.
Service Charges
Do you use the ATM across the street and pay the extra service charge
because you can’t be bothered walking two blocks further down the street
to your own ATM? Pay attention to what service charges are slowly
eating away your bank account. This is a super easy way to save money.
Also, how often are you going to that bank machine? One option may be
to take out money once a week and tell yourself that’s all you have to
spend. Cash is very easy to lose track of it. As soon as we put it
into our pockets, it just seems to disappear.
Instant Gratification
When you want something do you instantly run out and get it? If you do
want something, wait before you buy it. See if you still want it at the
end of the week. It may turn out to be something that really isn’t all
that important to you. Also, try not to put yourself into debt for
instant gratification. Yes, you want a new couch. It would be far
better to save the money up for the couch first instead of putting it on
your credit card and paying interest for months afterwards. That couch
could end up costing you far more than you ever imagined.
Keeping Up With the World
Are you just trying to have what everyone has? Your sister bought a
car, so now you want a car too? You’ll be far more happy knowing that
you’re out of debt rather than being stressed out from trying to figure
out how you are going to pay your lease payments just because you wanted
to keep up with everyone else. In reality, people really don’t care if
you have a new car or not. You need to believe in yourself and have
the confidence to only buy those material objects that are really
important to you.
Along with this attitude comes the feeling that you may need to
buy expensive gifts because in order to look good. You feel like you’re
not a good friend or relative unless you do. We need to be aware of
using money to bolster our own egos and our self-worth.
What do you think about money?
How do you feel when you think about money? Do you find yourself always
wishing you had more? Do you think the only way out of your situation
is to make more money or to get another job? It’s far easier to keep
the money we have than to do something drastic like get a second job.
It’s our thoughts towards money that will have the biggest impact on
well we handle our finances and how much we actually get to keep.
If you think you’re poor then you are poor. If you keep saying,
“I can’t afford…” you will remain always unable to afford anything. Try
thinking, “I don’t wish to spend my money on that right now.” By doing
this you will start to change your entire mindset in regards to money.
You will then be in control of your money not the other way around.
Do you believe you’re good with money?
If you tell yourself, “I can’t save money”, your subconscious believes
you and you really won’t be able to save. If you keep saying, “I’m
horrible with money” you will be horrible with money. Listen to what
messages you’re telling yourself and how you handle money. If it’s not
positive, change it.
How closed is your mind?
As soon as you say, “I can’t afford it” you have closed yourself down to
even thinking of any possible ways to achieve what you want. There are
usually lots of options we just don’t bother to think about them and
just say, “I can’t”.
You may be spending money on items just because you have closed
your mind to any possible alternative. It’s important to be aware of any
potential opportunities. Here are some examples:
Are you a two car family?
Would it be possible to only have 1 car? Most people will instantly
react and say they have to each have their own car. It’s an absolute
necessity. Think about it. Do you really need it? How often does one
sit in the driveway never being used? Try it for a month. The savings
in lease payments, gas, insurance and registration could add up to a
huge saving. If you really need the other car for your weekend
activities, it would still be much cheaper to rent a car for the weekend
than having your own car for an entire year.
The extras:
- do you pay for call display or call waiting when you don’t really need
it? Just because the phone company says it’s cheaper if you buy the
package.
- Do you subscribe to the movie channel even when you never have time to watch it?
- Do you have extra cable channels that you never watch just cause the cable company suggested it.
- Do you have magazine subscriptions that you never get around to reading?
- How many things are you paying for just because you haven’t
considered the option of not having them? Companies know that once we
get in the habit of something we tend to keep it.
Open your mind to potential savings opportunities and you may also realize what is really important to you and what really adds enjoyment to your life.
Starting to Save
Once you’ve thought about what your attitude is towards money, try the following:
Track Your Spending
Try it for a month. Write down every single thing that you spend money
on. You may be shocked at how much you’ve just spent on eating out. A
good way to start saving is to realize where your money is going. You
may also get a better understanding of what your attitude towards money
is and realize you need to change some of your thought processes.
Set up a Savings Account To Pay Yourself
If you just try to cut back on things and never actually put that money
you saved somewhere, it may just end up being spent on something else.
Pay yourself that savings. Put it into a separate account and don’t
touch it unless it’s an absolute emergency. That cute coat that’s on
sale now does not count. It’ll give you more motivation the more you
see your savings grow. Make sure you set up a habit of always adding
money at certain times. For example, from your mid month pay you commit
to always saving $100. After 10 months, you have $1,000. You’ll have
even more if you find an account that offers you a decent rate of
interest. It doesn’t take long.
Attitude is Everything
You really need to take a look at what attitudes you have towards money.
Some of them you probably gained from your parents or friends along
the way. You need to question them and figure out whether they’re
helping you or hindering you. Once you become conscious of your
thoughts you’ll be able to see where you may be mentally short
circuiting your saving efforts. Then you’re well on your way to being
able to manage money instead of the money controlling you. Once you
have a healthy and positive attitude, you will be able to figure out
what areas you can easily cut back on and what makes the most sense to
you. Saving money is really not all that hard and can be as simple as
changing your thoughts. Soon, you’ll be wondering why you didn’t think
of it before.
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