Finding love while not looking
by Anonymous Submission
I keep hearing that you only find love when you are truly not looking for it.
I can see some of the reasons why this is said, such as you need to be happy within yourself and rather than expect someone else to provide that.
However if your location and or lifestyle is one in which you simply do not meet new people, how on earth can you find love?
There is usually a suggestion of going out and joining some club or do a course in something you are interested in, but if you really would prefer not to do those things you end up doing that just in the hope of meeting someone, and it becomes circular because then you are looking again.