Yes, this is whats happening
I still doubt but after reading this I feel I face with such situation wiht a family member. (sometimes i think may be I am the one who needs help,)I cannot stop thinking abour her, I've tryed to change her vews, I have tryed to understand the way she thinks(my mother)..and I got lost myself. Feel all the time fatigue, lost every interest, confidence..as if only her exists in my life her and I. And I feel without my understanding she manipulates my life. And I am so weak that I am afraid to change my life.