I was madly in love with a narcissist for two and a half years. Two and a half years of hell ! I tried everything to please him, but everything was always my fault.... the more I tried, the more he wanted. The more I tried to explain that he was wrong, the more he believed I was guilty of whatever it was of which I was accused.
I learn't to keep quiet, but it is not the answer really. He just believed that he had reason, and that my silence was admission !
In the end, I learn't the tactic.... I walked away, and never went back. No more tears.
I have found love with a normal, loving man, who appreciates me and tells me how wonderful I am everyday !
Don't just walk............ RUN !