walk away

by K

I was madly in love with a narcissist for two and a half years. Two and a half years of hell ! I tried everything to please him, but everything was always my fault.... the more I tried, the more he wanted. The more I tried to explain that he was wrong, the more he believed I was guilty of whatever it was of which I was accused.

I learn't to keep quiet, but it is not the answer really. He just believed that he had reason, and that my silence was admission !

In the end, I learn't the tactic.... I walked away, and never went back. No more tears.

I have found love with a normal, loving man, who appreciates me and tells me how wonderful I am everyday !

Don't just walk............ RUN !

Comments for walk away

Click here to add your own comments

Jul 20, 2012
The truth will out
by: Anonymous

I have just read this site this morning and feel really sad. My narcisist was the nicest guy I've ever met until he started to try and subtlely manipulate me, belittle me, lecture me in wrong doings, shout at me for doing the silliest of things, snap at me for making decisions yet then telling me I can't make a decision to save my life. I came out of a relationship previously where I was treated badly and now see he saw me as a perfect "victim" to mould. I am terrified as given everything up for him and don't know what to do. I am a senior manager within business and as such very strong but he makes me feel like jelly, I go quiet in case what I say or do is wrong I physically feel myself cower in case he starts to shout, I feel nervous all of the time... I don't feel I have any escape. I think I need to read this book, or leave!

Click here to add your own comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How? Simply click here to return to Add Your Comments.

DMCA.com Protection Status