Thank you so much for this article. I feel so relieved now that I know why my dad acts this way; he's a Blamer. I'm a college student at 17 & every day he gets on me about being detached(only because he's always putting me down), and how I need to make more friends, take control of my life, etc. Lately I've felt so depressed and worthless, but not anymore. Today I realized that I'm a pretty good guy; always polite, never raise my voice to people, and empathize with anyone I meet. I will learn not to take what he says personally, but instead as a cover up for his own mistakes. Life feels like it's gonna get better from here on. :) thanks again
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