My ex is ruining my childs life...because he is a blamer and...

by Sad me
(Ontario, Canada)

I am not...

He is teaching her how to become a blamer and I can't do anything about it.

I am so happy I found this site.

I have to understand that I cannot change him or her. I feel sick that my child will not have the benefits to a healthy parent all because the blamer has wormed his way into her mind.

I am sad about this... 20 years of living with a blamer... I wished I'd left before my child was habit to this behaviour and now has decided to live with the blamer because he has toyed with her. Even has resorted to crying in front of her etc.

I'm still trying to grasp why one would do this to their own child?

I have been fortunate enough to find a loving supportive man. I have this to be thankful. He has taught me the "norms of a relationship".

It's a long journey but I will make it. I only hope my child can with little damage.