I have just read through the article about "blamers" and so much of it rings true to my spouse! i have put up with his accusations etc. for too long. I feel so much better and more empowered, after reading your information here... that I am no longer feeling guilty for having had a massive stroke 2 years ago, he was somehow able to blame me for it ...
he has been my caregiver but it always included the emotional abuse, so i was forced into a grateful type of toxic relationship. Now I am ready to make a change and free myself of this debilitating psycopath! I will make the change I should have made long ago and free myself for whatever life I have left to live.
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