is it ok to dream this?
Seven months ago my man walked out on me after a very good 6 year living relationship. He always seemed just as happy as me in this relationship and we frequently talked about growing old together.
Seven months ago we had an argument (we did not argue frequently because he usually gave in to me) and he turned to me and said he wanted out.
I've missed him ever since. I have been battling depression and negative thoughts since he walked out and trying to find balance in a new lifestyle to suit my now much lower financial budget. I have also recently understood where I have gone wrong too - not enough to cause the end of the relationship, but enough to have put pressure in it. I also understand more than ever what a great person he was - for all his flaws.
I came across your website last week and it has been helping me a lot to dream big and stay positive. however, I find myself dreaming and staying positive by picturing us back together and by imagining, that we have both grown a lot during our separation and that he would come to realise that he really wanted to be with me.
I am afraid that by dreaming my wildest dream in the relationship area, I may be heading for disaster, if this does not happen.