I wont be buying the book...
...as the book is not for me (I'm still angry). I have read your article though and I now know why my supervisor is always praising my work colleagues but is always belittling me and shouting at me. I have been feeling so incompetent in my job and I feel so ashamed and embarrassed, especially tonight when she actually shouted at me through the intercom and made me jump. I'm a 24 year old, not a child.
I know I'm good at my job, otherwise my boss wouldn't have kept me on (I was a Christmas temp but now I'm permanent). My boss is wonderful but I can't even talk to her about my supervisor because everyone else thinks she's really nice and I'm worried I'll be seen as a liar or that my supervisor will find out I've complained about her and make my working life even more harder to bear.
I have a disability and my boss and my supervisors know this and it affects my motor abilities which means I can't work very fast (I have a lot of trouble using my hands) but she doesn't seem to take this into consideration. She just yells at me that it's my fault we never get out on time but praises the others on a job well done.
Sorry for rambling. I just really needed to talk about this.