by Catherine Pratt
Do you find that you care too much what others think of you or are you constantly seeking approval?
You're definitely not alone. I used to be a huge people pleaser. But, it didn't seem to matter what I did, it never seemed to be enough or I'd end up making the situation worse than when I started. Almost always, I'd end up feeling horrible afterwards. Even if the person did end up happy, I'd feel like I hadn't been true to myself or that I was being a fake. Or I'd end up beating myself up afterward especially after any social event. I'd keep thinking, "Well that was a stupid thing to say", or "I looked horrible" and over and over I'd re-run the event in my head.
It took me a long time but I finally figured out that I was causing a lot of my own grief simply because I was constantly seeking approval from others.
So, how do you stop caring so much what others think?
Well, it's not as hard as it might seem at first glance. I break it down into 3 simple steps:
1. Pay attention to what's really happening
By asking yourself just a couple of key questions, you'll suddenly gain a new understanding about yourself and why and how you've been trying to gain approval from others. You'll no longer just react from your emotions of hurt, anger, insecurity. You'll be able to choose how you want to react which is such a powerful new way of handling your life.
2. Understand why you're reacting the way you do
Once you start to realize where your previous thoughts have come from or what you've been trying to achieve by seeking approval, it's much easier to see how your past actions most likely been pushed away what you really wanted.
3. Modify your thoughts to help you move forwards rather than staying stuck feeling like things are being done to you.
I give you a number of different strategies you can use to modify your thoughts. It's not a matter of just telling yourself to "think positive thoughts". It's much deeper than that. Awareness and understanding go a long way to help you to let go of those negative beliefs from the past.
And, the result of going through this process is that you gain a new awareness of yourself and how valuable you are. You'll gain that self confidence to be the real you instead of always trying to be what you think others want you to be. You'll learn to appreciate comments from people and use them to improve yourself rather than taking them to heart that you're a failure.
In my book, "How Do I Stop Caring What People Think Of Me?", I go through these steps in complete detail and provide you actual steps and techniques to use in each stage. It's over 130 pages of solutions you can use quickly and easily right now.
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Once you gain an awareness of why things have been happening, then you'll find that positive changes will quickly start to happen in your life. You take back control of your life which is such an amazing, wonderful feeling if you've been an approval seeker like I was. It'll feel like a huge weight has suddenly been lifted off your shoulders and you're finally FREE. Free from always feeling guilty or anxious that you're not doing the right thing but also free to finally show the world the real you. It's truly the most amazing gift you can give yourself.
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