Always thinking the worst.
I am 23 years old and wanted to first off mention how happy I am to have found this site. So, on with my problem/issue. I have been in relationships and like everyone else had my share of good and bad ones. My problem is, is that I always seem to focus on something bad happening when I meet someone new.
For instance, I met a guy while I was on vacation and he is from Europe. We clicked very well and had so much to talk about it. I was on vaca with my girlfriends, but ended up spending a lot of my time with him because something with him felt so different compared to any other guy I have dated or talked to.
Well, we both end up going our separate ways and giving one another contact information and he does email me when he got back to Europe (I live in the US). We have been talking for a few days and everything is/was going very well, then he told me he had to go out of town for a few days to a wedding. All that is running through my head is, "What if he meets someone at the wedding? What if he already has a girlfriend? What if he gets home and just ends up completely disregarding me? What if he doesnt answer my emails? What if? What if What if?
The reason I feel like this and why I have no positivity or confidence is because that is something that happened to me just a few months ago, I was talking to a guy everything was great, then out of the blue, just cuts off all ties. CAN ANYONE HELP? What should I do? What should I think? So many thoughts. Any feedback would help. Thank you!