OMG, I WAS DATING A BLAMER!!!

by Marie
(Florida)

I started to date my coworker, after years of flirting. He told me he was separated from his wife, but they still lived in the same house, different rooms. He had a son, so he didn't want to leave. But, he was so affectionate and loving for 5 months, for me, it was bliss. But, I was also blind... He never wanted to know about me, my family, my hobbies, my friends, nothing... Then his real attitude came out... He wouldn't respond to my texts, and blamed it on the phone. When I wouldn't hear from him, I would bring it up, and he bring up a time where I did not text him back, usually because I was sleeping, but would text him the next morning apologizing for not responding. He then went cold, and we had the talk. He would break dates, fizzle out, become distant, and each time, he blamed it on me that I was the cold, distant and date breaker, he also NEVER apologized for ANYTHING! Every time I would call him on standing me up, he would turn it right back. He kept telling me to get back on my meds...
Then, after 5 months, he got another job. The last day, he was affectionate and told me he loved me. Stupidly, I went back...
Now, he disappears, never texts, so I asked if this was it? No response. I texted him one last time, and he brought up the fact that I didn't text him on Sunday (keep in mind, I texted him every day, but he never responded), and I told him I had a family emergency. He didn't ask, or even care to find out what happened, only that HE WAS NOT TEXTED!
Anywho, after reading this, I now know who he is... a total narcissist! I admit, it will be hard to get completely over him, but in the long run, it was doomed to fail from the beginning!