But how can I 'BE SURE' its really not me?
My husband constantly tells me that i always make such a big deal out of him not telling me the WHOLE TRUTH. Past experiences with him and pretty much everyone my entire life have left me very untrusting and careful to listen to what is said. But he continuosly tells me that what i remember is wrong, blames me for his actions saying that he knew how i would react. That alone upsets me for him to predict my reaction. And being told only part of a situation or conversation with someone else for me to learn the entirety of it later, definitely has no aid in building trust. But sometimes he does make me think that that because ive NEVER BEEN ABLE to trust anyone that this is an issue which i need to deal with and that he's not lying. But he has lied to me or not told me the whole truth and even lied to other people concerning things or about things that well just blow my mind.So i think if he will lie to me over little things then im sure he would over something really series. So how do i know if its me or him?