This describes my boss almost exactly. It's really nightmarish, but in a shaky economy I'm scared to make a change. There are times when I feel like he is literally stealing my energy, it's outright awful. I'll just be on the phone, making a sales call, then suddenly I'll feel completely drained, shaken, even anxious, and I'll turn around and see him behind me, moving away as if he was focussed on something else. Ugh. He's actually the owner of the company, but he also is the manager. Recently I've been focussed on improving my mind, my reality, so forth, and have found that whenever I leave work, all of my efforts seem to be for naught. It's concerning, which is what led me to research how to deal with it (I discovered this page as a result of that search).