What is this called?

by vanessa
(casa grande, az)

What do you call this type? During an arguement I will point out something my husband is doing that is undesirable. Then he will go off on a tangent "Well, you do this, and you do that, and let's not forget about the time you did blah". I've tried to talk to him about this but he doesn't see anything wrong with thus behavior or it foes the opposite way and he says its all his fault (sarcasticly) and gets angry.