Negative spouse 
I have never told anyone these things before and I have tried to talk to my husband, but he just doesn't want to hear them. So, I have been married to …

Loss of 40+ year friendship -  
How does one deal with this?

I am honestly having such a difficult time. My friendship with this lady has ended basically due to her depression and …

totally negative.... 
I am in a super negative frame of mind lately. I am in a long term relationship and it has been a complete roller coaster for the past 11 years. At least …

Negativity drains me 
My sister is very negative. You can't say two words without her being rude. I've had to unfriend her on facebook because she ALWAYS post something so negative. …

Negative Family 
My brother and I share a house together. He is the most demeaning, negative, self absorbed person in my life. The letter I recieved from him today about …

Future Mother-In-Law manipulates about money 
My future MIL receives money from her son every month for bills. She's very negative to me about never having money to do anything with. I feel like she's …

Solutions - on how to deal with negative people 
Hello

First of all I think I have a lot of negative people in my own family and would like to know how to tackle this.

For years now they have always …

Boss Brings Me (and others) Down 
I work for a great company. I love my job about half of the time. The other half of the time becomes almost unbearable because I have a chronically depressed …

No Support From Spouse 
I just started a new job and it consumes a lot of my time. I'm an independant contractor and it takes time to build a business.

I've been doing this …

Do other people get their dreams put-down? 
Recently, I've come a really good inspiring speaker. This person was poor and people have always told him that he was retarded and illiterate. I was really …

How to deal with my negative husband not loving his stepchildren 
I remarried 10 years ago and brought 2 children with me. I had a 3rd child with my 2nd husband. This husband is negative, critical and unforgiving by nature …

UNI FRIENDS/EXAMS/STRESS/DREAMS 
I am really struggling at Uni, I thought I was going to have a great time, but little did I know that the friends I made in the first year were going …

Smile "Good Karma" is here! 
I have always been a people pleaser. Now that I have reached a ripe age of 21 soon to be 22. I have decided to take things in my hands on how to deal with …

dealing with negative people 
after reading your tips, i'm really going to take them to heart. instead of blaming the negative people for driving me nuts....i need to find out why they …

Negative Spouse 
I truly appreciate your advice. I would like you to be more specific when dealing with a spouse that has neg attitude. When is it time to decide if divorce …

Negative People Tip - Develop Tolerance For Them 
Smile - when u see people crying and lamenting

don't smile at them for they might think u are laughing at them - smile internally - smile in your thoughts. …

My sister says horrible thoughts about me  
My sister told me if I went to Melbourne to visit a friend. My friend would kill me it's that horrible to say that. I didn't end up going becaus of that, …

My Issue 
I have a problem because every person in my life is negative and obnoxious except three people. The people who have been nice to me and loved me unconditionally …

Decluttering Negative "friendships" 
Hi everyone,

First of all its nice to see a positive, informative website. It has taken me up into my 30's to ditch various negative people who quite …

Whining husband 
I did not quite understand when we were dating that complaining can spoil my life in marriage. We are 12 years together now and I think I have exhausted …

she never completley hears what i say and puts me down 
when talking to my g/f about the bills or grocery list or the kids she never hears me fully can never repeat back the words i had just spoke seconds prior,it …

Homesick and Lolenyness... 
My name is Chris, I am from Greece and I am 18 years old. Theres been 4 months since I entered in a Greek University which is located miles away from my …

I'm my own negative battle... 
Hello,

I've written on here before about my family being negative and it affecting me in many ways... But today I have come to the realization that …

Why Care, if no one else does? 
I believe that I know the answer, but I get frustated at times. I suppose that I am lookikng for a discussion forum or something like a group that encourages …

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Half kin thinks that I owe her something and is very evil 
She is medically classified having mental retardation. I know better, she is just a lazy sloth. Free money from SSID. I guess I could of taken that route …

negative relationship with boyfriend 
i have been in a relationship for 4 years. i am divorced twice with a teenage daughter, he is divorced from a 25 year marriage. we spend a lot of time …

Negative But beautiful Relationship??? 
Everything started as a casual relationship (sex involved). With the pass of the time we started having feelings for each other. I always expected more, …

negative thought process 
My hubby is troubling himself nowadays. The problem is that he admires other women (and I know he does that through himself). But for the past few months …

Dealing with my grandmother 
I have a grandmother that I take care of, and she always would leave me angry and bitter at her. I have learned to leave the room, I have learned to pray …

Being harassed while walking 
People harass others by following them and telling other people falsities about them so they won't do the things for themselves that they like to do, for …

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