MY HUSBAND IS A BLAMER! IM LEAVING HIM, ASAP!
I WANTED TO CRY READING THIS, NOT ONLY IS HE A BLAMER, BUT HE IS A FEW OTHER THINGS ALSO. He blames me for everything,he woke up late and lost one of his jobs,who was to blame, ME! He chipped his tooth hollering at me, and he says " You see what u made me do". ITS CRAZY. I dont even go places with him anymore, afraid that if something goes wrong, i will be blamed. If the tire goes flat, he will say, you caused this mess. He never admits when he is wrong, and never apologises for nothing. I thought that it was because he is African and im African-American, but i dont think that matters. This is EMOTIONAL ABUSE to the fullest. Sorry but i dont need the book, because i am ending this marriage, he is also selfish self-centered and egotistical. The worse thing about him is, he puts on this fake face to people, as if he is this kind sweet person, and no one will ever believe he treats me this way. He is also a Hypocritical-Saint, Loves Church. But as soon as he leaves out those doors, the evil devil comes out to play. I dont like this man and i am leaving him, PERIOD.Life is too short to be dealing with people like this.