Listen to yourseLf

by RedZz
(Indonesia)

the best decision in aLL your probLems is to Listen to yourseLf
-RedZz-

Listening to others may heLps,
but it makes us beLieve that we doubt ourseLves.

Others may give so many advices,
and make us confuse to choose for the best choice.
therefore, when we need a solution for a probLem,
the best choice is Listen to yourseLf!
beLieve in yourseLf!

i aLways think Like this..
i can make it to the position i am here now,
why can't i go further?

when i need to step forward,
depend on somebody eLse make me so insecure
that's why i oLweizz ask myseLf
n depend on my own hands

if i faiL, at Least i Live as i beLieve
therefore i win

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Visitor's Comments
Date: January 20, 2008
Posted by: Catherine, www.Life-With-Confidence.com

Hey RedZz,

Thanks for the quote. I agree with you that it's important to make your final decisions based upon what you believe is the right decision for you and that you're not making a decision simply in order to gain someone else's approval.

I have a group of friends that I know I can go to for advice and I know their advice will be based upon what they believe is best for me and not simply what they would do. Getting feedback from others can be so valuable. They may provide you with an idea that you may not have thought about yourself or they may see something that you can't see because you're too close to the situation. When I do have doubts, they can help me through the situation.

So, I wouldn't discount getting advice from others. Life is a process of learning about ourselves but we can learn so much from others. I think it's important to have others you can depend on for support and guidance when you need it. They'll also support you in whatever decision you make because they believe in you. So, yes, it's important to listen to yourself but it's also important to listen to what others can teach us as well.