Is There HOPE When The Blamer Is Your Spouse?
This sounds like my mate....who continually blames me for everything that goes wrong....he also has negative comments about everything and everything everybody else is doing WRONG in this world....he never says he is sorry even when I make him realize I was not at fault.
We were teenage sweethearts....first loves....were engaged....broke up and married different people. His wife died a few years ago and since I never got him out of my heart.
The long and short...we live together now....so he is like my SPOUSE.....I divorced 30 years ago and was never with anybody else since....til this man.
Is there any hope for us? y brain tells me to do so....my heart does not want to walk away....so I am willing to try to understand this personality type and see if there are changes I can make to help this relationship. There is a really wonderful side to this man....it is just the blame thing!!!