'he' vs. 'they' of 'a narcissistic blamer'

by Ty

My only concern is that this article seems to pick out 'he' instead of saying he/she or 'the blamer' ... I just got out of a relationship with a female blamer.

Good article though. Thanks

Note from Catherine
Hi Ty,
I totally appreciate what you're saying. Blamers can definitely be male or female and I wasn't trying to pick out one gender over the other. Originally, I used "they" throughout but then I had a number of people complain about that. If I put "he/she" every time it makes it awkward and so much harder to read (I tried). So, this quirk of the English language is tricky. I was just trying to be consistent in my pronoun throughout the article. So, I haven't figured out the perfect solution yet but I do want you to know that I'm not trying to put the blame on males more than the females. Gender isn't a factor with this type of personality.