Boyfriend is overly questioning of things I do  I have been in a stable relationship for over a year and a half with a wonderful man. But there is one thing he does that really bothers me and I don't ...

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dealing with a failed marriage  I am 41,(male) and still married to a woman who left me 2 years ago. I don't really blame her for leaving as I totally took her for granted and we were ...

Jealousy and negative thinking  Hi,
I am a 28 year old firefighter from the UK, I am not bad looking and have got a lot going for me. But I have always struggled with low self-esteem ...

my wife had emotional effair  I have forgiven my wife but really don't trust her. It's been 3 years

I still feel anger at my wife's mother and her friends, I feel that they helped ...

angry  My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now, we have a 6 month old daughter, ever since she was born, my boyfriend has been unusually angry at ...

Husband in touch with ex girlfriend long distance  My husband of 16 years has stayed in touch with a "friend" from 20 plus years ago. We have two incredible sons and as a family have a great life. We ...

Difficult relationship after sexual affair  I am married to my husband since 9 years. I was thinking that our marriage is great but I was very wrong. I couldn't conceive for a long time and this ...

Can't Get Over the Past  I was married and had my son when I was sixteen and my daughter when I was 20. I am now 41 and been cheated on multiple times. My first husband messed ...

Finding love while not looking  I keep hearing that you only find love when you are truly not looking for it.

I can see some of the reasons why this is said, such as you need to be ...

How can you get on the dating scene and feel confident with other sexes?  I have dated and am in my mid 30's but I have never been great at attracting men to fancy me. I am quite okay looking but have some physical issues occuring ...

relationship with my sister in law  Hi Catherine,

This is my second article I am writing on your site which I really like.

Where to start?

I am married for 5 years now. My husband ...

What am I doing wrong?  I been married for 9 months. I think my husband hates me. He drives trucks and I often sleep alone thats fine, but when he gets home he act like I'm not ...

experience left me low in self belief  Ten years ago I had a very destructive relationship with a guy who was extremely controlling and who spent every day asking me what thoughts I'd had about ...

What am I doing wrong?  I just want to know what i've been doing wrong or if something is preventing me from being in a relationship.

I haven't dated in three years or so. I ...

too much or not enough?  Hi all,

I am posting this message to see if I'm alone or not, basically I'm with a very nice girl at early stages time wise, but my problems lies with ...

Insecurities about his ex-girlfriend  I met my partner about a year ago but called things off as I had just come out of another relationship and needed time for myself. However, we remained ...

trust/confidence  Your partner is accused of cheating. He says he never and you can't prove it either way and to make it worse girls throw themselves at him and even though ...

love  how can u look matured in a relationship with your spouse or guy which he will respect u.and how he will love and cherish you even if he has a girlfriend ...

coparenting and trying to remain positive  i have a toddler who's being put in the middle of uneccessary conflict. have been co parenting for a while now. my ex moved in a bf shortly after our seperation....

How to mend my relationship with my only sisterinlaw?  We were 2 siblings me and my 5 yrs younger brother and our mom and dad ours was a happy family. Somehow once my brother got married things between me and ...

Relationships that go right but make you go hmmn.  My fiance and I have been together for over a year now. I love him a lot and I went through a lot of bad guys to be with him today. You know what I mean?...

Why does he always tell me i'm crap?  I have been in this relationship on and off for nearly 5 years. The honeymoon period lapses and then the real him comes out. He is always so negative....

Relationship trust issues  Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a year. Problem is she lives about 500 miles away. Most people say long distance things never work ...

friends as alcoholics  Hi all,

My boyfriend has recently started a new job and has met some people who are really nice, but they drink far too much alcohol. At their workplace ...

flirting  Some people, sometime like an unknown person, when their partner is near him,and sofer for him. Why happens that?



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