16 years of living hell with a pycopath

by lisa
(queencreek,az)

I have been married to a man for 16 years that is a controlling person he blames everyone but himself for anything that goes wrong! he blames me for everything when he is the one that is doing everything wrong in our relationship he cheats does drugs spends money out of control but he still manages to keep his job! he talks badly about everybody even people sitting right next to us in a restaurant he will make fun of them!!! one time a lady heard him and confronted him about it and he turned it all on her telling her she was the one making the scene not him I have recenlty filed for divorce because he is a very abusive person and i couldn't take his abuse anymore I am sure he has found someone else and she will soon be the one to get controlled not me or his 2 other marriages before me I know i have to heal from all of this and my 2 teenage daughter also are probably going to need counseling its a sad thing but i am glad to be finally free i never thought i was going to get out.......

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16 years of living hell with a pycopath

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Jul 31, 2012
 freedom
by: Anonymous

it's great that you have got out of worse life now you feel freedom .
Aug 10, 2012
 Much love
by: Marie

Lisa, my heart and prayers go out to you... I wish you the very best, you deserve to be happy, you are a lovely person who deserves all the love in the world! Be strong girl!!!
Mar 26, 2013
 New day!
by: Anonymous

It's hard to believe there are emotional predators like this.Same thing.I'm always wrong.Always. He's never sorry,never wrong and will always have a justification for his actions.The physical abuse has escalated.He gives a great performance in front of my children.When i turn the corner he gives them an eye roll to let them know i am not to be respected or taken seriously.When a fight ensues my kids are sure to blame me."Why can't you just do what dad tells you too.? Your always making him mad."He broke my foot and then blames me for all the slack he has to pick up.Housework,taking the kids to school etc..Calls me an a-hole when i complain about the pain.How dare i complain when he's been taking such good care of me!I hope this man has taught you to be a survivor because mine sure has.No matter what we still matter. I hope you have found peace. God bless

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